To feel sexy again

I have been thinking, I'm in my thirties, aren't I supposed to be in my sexual peak? Having two kids though seems to have sucked away any ability to feel fun, flighty and well, just all out like a sexy diva. I do remember days when I actually donned a cute slinky skirt and went out dancing feeling like a sex goddess, now if I don't have any holes in my old flannel pajamas, I'm happy. How do I get that spark going again? And I am not talking about the spark between hubs and I...it doesn't take much for him. I am talking about feeling sexy myself.

What do you do to feel sexy?

Is it a nice bath, surrounded by candles?

Dressing up in something really risque, such as lacy garter belts or sexy body stockings?

What gets you feeling like a sultry queen in her lair?