I have finally talked with my husband about counseling. We are going to try...try to turn things around. He is taking anger management classes beginning next week too. I have a sliver of hope for us, I just want to see the sun come through these clouds. I am really hoping I am making the right choice. No matter what...at least I gave it one last shot. I think the counseling will do me good in more than one way. Fingers are crossed.
Sunday, March 9, 2008
Sliver of hope
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That's great! All you can do is your part, all you can do is try. Remember- it is not up to you what anyone else does, you cannot control them. All you can do is control yourself, and your reactions. And even if this doesn't work, you can hold onto the fact that you gave it your everything.
Good for you!
i hope that it works out for you!
Autumn,
Thanks, I know. It is hard though...I am a control freak and I think once we have done this I will know better whether there is any moving on.
Zoe,
Thanks!
I think agreeing to get help is one of the most important steps you both can take together... it symbolized both desire and willingness to make it better...
All the best to you both - it won't be easy, but it's totally true that - what you (and him) put in, is what you'll get out of it. Sometimes all we need is a referee and some really cool communication tactics. ;) At least that's how it helped save mine.
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